ENERGY SIPHONING
Updated: Aug 24
energy siphoning!!!! booooo 👎 let's get your energy back
i learned about energy siphoning the hard way. i've had mild cases with friends & i've also had HORRIBLE destiny swapping intense cases with a "best friend" & i've had some of my closest family members really really deeply siphon my energy through trauma. this is one of the biggest lessons i've had to learn & overcome in this lifetime, it really took me years & i know i'm meant to help people through the same thing so if you're here, i'm so sorry you're experiencing this too i truly understand firsthand the anger, frustration, betrayal, grief that can come from this wound but you can overcome it!!!!! get your energy back!!!! & i hope this helps you <3
(i just wrote this in an hour like really quickly bc so many people asked for help lol so it will be updated as i expand on it more, here is just the basic stuff first)
OKAY SO energy siphoning:
what is it
what are the symptoms
how are you letting it in
how to stop it
free cord cutting meditation i made with archangel michael! & more free resources for you <3 i'm going to put up another meditation on youtube for free too in about a week so watch out for that!!!! <3333
ONE, what is it
energy siphoning is the act of draining another person's life force, abundance, beauty, vitality, health, etc.
it's usually unconscious but if it's INTENTIONAL & on purpose & the person is aware that they're doing it, then that's a form of black magic. which i'll get into another day ( if you're balls deep in spiritual warfare then i recommend energy work 101 truly, it's literally about energetic boundaries https://iris-dailey.mykajabi.com/offers/6riopKGj/checkout )
there are mild cases & there are like really extreme destiny
TWO, the symptoms
What is showing up in your physical reality?
if your money is drying up -> siphoning your abundance
if you feel ugly or you’re gaining weight or breaking out, losing hair, losing motivation in hygiene like showering less, brushing teeth less, flossing less etc -> siphoning your health, beauty or vitality
if your creativity is impacted, they’re making content with YOUR ideas ???? or music, any form of art, etc -> siphoning your creative energy & this is also an abundance siphon because this ties into your abundance
if they're copying everything you're doing, your clothes. you post a picture in a cute outfit, all of a sudden they bought the same outfit...? you dye your hair, they dye their hair. your social media posts, your mannerisms, your jokes or little catch phrases, etc.
if it FEELS weird, trust your gut. soooo often do i hear someone say "or idk i could be overthinking it..." & you are NOT overthinking it! if part of you feels weird about it, the absolute best thing you can do is honor yourself & trust your intuition. your intuition is literally the most powerful part of you. the more you listen to yourself, the more you step into your power.
there are SOOOO many ways it can show up in your physical reality, these are just symptoms. the “copying” is just a symptom. the root cause is energetic but the symptoms can give you clues as to what’s really going on energetically.
THREE, how are YOU letting it in?
They can’t siphon you if you don’t let them, so what part of you is unconsciously letting it in? Usually this is unconscious & requires much much more than just cutting someone off in the physical. You could not speak to someone for YEARS & still have an energetic cord of siphoning. It’s an energetic root, it needs to be taken care of energetically <3
These are the types of wounds or beliefs that allow this in:
Abandonment wound
-if there is an abandonment wound, someone will unconsciously let someone siphon them in order to feel safe like an unconscious belief that “if I give them my energy, then they won’t leave me”
Mother wound
-you’re giving your energy in exchange for maternal energy, emotional regulation, the feeling of safety, grounding, calmness. So on some level (most likely unconscious) you are allowing them to siphon you because you are getting maternal energy from them
Father wound
-you’re giving your energy in exchange for paternal energy, protection, safety, grounding, calmness, validation, approval,
An example of a mother wound / siphoning exchange:
-you call them for emotional support when you feel emotional or stressed, anxious, etc. when you need to be emotionally regulated, you call them because you know that’s what they do for you. but in exchange you start contorting to the type of friend THEY want you to be
STORY TIME & AN EXAMPLE:
I used to have a friend that I’d call for emotional support like any time I felt stressed, emotional, anxious, etc. I knew that I could call her. When I needed to be emotionally regulated, I would call her. (this was 4 years ago before I healed this wound & learned how to emotionally regulate myself) & mutually, she could call me too. That was our energetic agreement. But in the physical, we were just being “good friends” to each other. She would also call me any time she needed advice for social media……… I would basically give her a pep talk. She had a little following & made playlists on spotify that got a lot of traction / abundance for her as well. One time, I put out a “gratitude” series! I was super excited about it, (if you’re new here I usually do “series” where I put out some sort of series like “energy work 101” where I post a bunch of tiktoks in a series called energy work 101, I’ll make a meditation around it or a whole course, it’s like the theme of the energy I’m teaching at the time & the energy healing I’m giving at the time) So I made a “gratitude series” that started doing really well!!!!! I was stoked about, I made a gratitude meditation & a few tiktoks around it that did really well & I was helping a lot of people. Then all of a sudden she made a Spotify playlist about gratitude….. ??? She made a TikTok about it that got like 5 million views…. ??? She had a small following, the virality didn’t make sense. & all of a sudden I lost ALL motivation to do finish my gratitude series. I stopped posting about it.
The abundance I was given by my spirit guides for the gratitude series was taken (more like unconsciously given by me, I don’t really feel like a victim in this context. I think she’s a sweet soul that didn’t realize what she was doing. I’ve had far worse experiences with people taking my creative ideas that were actually malicious & intentional, this person in particular was not malicious or intending any harm. Just lost & using my energy instead of healing her own abundances & self worth wounds)
I didn’t know at the time what was happening but years later after learning what I know now about energy work & energy healing, I see what happened. We were corded into each other in an unhealthy way. Getting emotional regulation, validation, abundance, etc. She was hooked into my mother wound, so I was giving her my abundance in exchange for emotional regulation & the maternal energy I never received as a child. But the reason she was ABLE to was because 1. I was unconscious of what was truly happening & 2. I gave her unconscious permission. & I was siphoning her RIGHT BACK. I was siphoning her when I was getting the emotional regulation.
Again, this one is a pretty mild case & pretty common occurrence. Neither one of us were intending to hurt each other but the connection was unhealthy so it was better we separated & healed those wounds. I've had many 1 on 1 sessions with girls where I'm clearing this for them. Most of the time it's unintentional. But I have had much much more malicious encounters with people who are doing it on purpose, intentionally & also doing literal rituals. When I say I had to learn this lesson the hard way I am not exaggerating for a second.
Someone who siphons energy will hook into your wounds, I had this same pattern over & over & over again because they were all hooked into my mother wound. & until I really put the time, energy, love & attention into healing that wound, I was still attracting the same type of person. So on some level, if this is a huge wound & pattern for you then there’s a part of you that needs some love & attention <3
FOUR, how to stop it
you can start with a cord cutting! if it's a mild case where it's just like an annoyance you're probably fine to just do a cord cutting. but i'd say the majority of the time, a cord cutting isn't enough & you need to heal the energetic wounds beneath the surface. especially if it's a family member or an ex
what you need to look into:
the nature of your energetic connection, so back to ^^^ how is it showing up in your physical reality? for example: if they're siphoning your abundance, what are you getting in exchange? this will lead you to what wound you need to heal that siphoners / vampires are hooking into ( like me w my mother wound )
what past life karma still exists & what are the lessons to be learned? if past lives are a new concept to you, you should see a professional healer. a cord cutting will not be enough!
the faster you can move into a state of neutrality, acceptance, compassion & forgiveness, the faster you can move on from this happening. if you still have unresolved emotions & trauma with this person, they will still have something to hook into
i'll be posting a whole ritual of an intensive cord cutting & CALLING YOUR ENERGY BACK in about a week for free on my youtube so keep an eye out for that! & if the demand is high enough maybe a whole tiktok series, idk we'll see <3
i have a whole course on this stuff if you need extra help called Energy Work 101 & an advanced course called Energy Work 102 <3
FIVE, free meditation & other resources :)))
here is the link to 2 free meditations for this:
this one is a cord cutting meditation with archangel michael
i'll also post another free meditation on youtube so keep an eye out for that!!! <3
OKAY I LOVE YOU :))))) I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST WITH WHAT EVER SITUATION YOU'RE CURRENTLY EXPERIENCING SIPHONING WITH <333
& if you want to support me, please go listen to my music!! <3 i have a song coming out called FREE (cut the cord) that has cord cutting energy in it coming out on 10/10 :')))
also here's the link to energy work 101 & energy work 102 with 50% off codes <3
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